I Live In a Sexless Marriage

After years, YEARS of begging my husband to go to the doctor, because I do believe that part of the problem was physical, he finally went. His bloodwork results are starting to trickle in and surprise, surprise, surprise, he has extremely low testosterone and vitamin D levels. On the one hand, I am happy that he will start feeling better with treatment, but on the other hand I know that the emotional damage he has done to me is the far bigger problem. I feel so, so frustrated. And really pissed off.

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Noble · 56-60, M

I've seen much of the same from the opposite vantage point. The lack of deep emotional connection in my marriage has caused a lot of 'disappointment'. Without the emotional side hitting on all cylinders, the physical takes it's toll.
Anyhow, you may not see it as a transferable connection, but I wanted to chime in.
Moreover, wishing you well in your effort ol fulfillment.