I Live In a Sexless Marriage

After years, YEARS of begging my husband to go to the doctor, because I do believe that part of the problem was physical, he finally went. His bloodwork results are starting to trickle in and surprise, surprise, surprise, he has extremely low testosterone and vitamin D levels. On the one hand, I am happy that he will start feeling better with treatment, but on the other hand I know that the emotional damage he has done to me is the far bigger problem. I feel so, so frustrated. And really pissed off.

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SW-User

I never baulk at the idea of going to the doctors, particularly as I turn 60 next year. You never know what is around the corner and a simple doctor's appointment could spot something unpleasant that is lurking within. I wish more men would swallow their macho pride and get themselves seen to.

LipstickandHeels · 51-55, F

Well, and that's the part that makes me angry. I mean simple vitamin started years ago could have made a great difference.

SW-User

I want to enjoy life for as a long as I can. Doctors help us do it (if you can get an appointment, that is - but don't get me started on that one!)