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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

After years, YEARS of begging my husband to go to the doctor, because I do believe that part of the problem was physical, he finally went. His bloodwork results are starting to trickle in and surprise, surprise, surprise, he has extremely low testosterone and vitamin D levels. On the one hand, I am happy that he will start feeling better with treatment, but on the other hand I know that the emotional damage he has done to me is the far bigger problem. I feel so, so frustrated. And really pissed off.
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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Well at least you know the problem and he is willing to try to get better. Hopefully the good results will offset some of the frustration. One person I know will not even take the meds that might help her.
:-(
LipstickandHeels · 51-55, F
Unfortunately, it's not the whole problem. I can understand and even sympathize with a medical problem causing him to be uninterested in sex. But he hasn't been interested in me as a person either, and that's what I don't think I can get past.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@LipstickandHeels: yes that is sad. I totally understand that all too well