Losing friends and actually being hated

If many of you are familiar with the situation of my husband. I revealed that he’s okay and alive actually. I posted by this before but I wasn’t ready for what happened next. I lost friends, and people who played like they miss him ended up being upset. Today is our anniversary and my husband is proud of me. He keep saying “I’m thankful you didn’t put me out”. People are upset that he’s not actually dead. I lost so many friends😞 it’s like I shared the worst with them. I’m not understanding why everyone is leaving me. They should be happy that he’s okay but their not😞