Pressure for marriage

my gf from india who is illegal here in the UK is reallt good to me. its been over a year and shes pressuring me for marriage

i dont feel ready and shes giving me ultimatums

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robertsnj · 56-60, M

just be honest with her. If you dated for over 1 year you know if you want to marry her or not.

If you like dating her but not marrying her be up front and say that instead of "not ready yet"

It is ok that you don't want to be married to her but stringing her along with "maybe someday" is really cruel.