Real Marriage Exist Always?

Is Young Generation Know The Real Definition Of Marriage ? Because, I think that many people nowadays are in couple because of means or beauty of their partner, or the famous and so on.... This situation scaring me everyday...

Sorry for my English. I hope you understand me... I speak fluently french that's why.

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in10RjFox · M

Marriage has lost its meaning long ago and has become synonymous to wedding. Couples think wedding is marriage. And they get wedded because it has been the tradition. It scared me some two decades ago, and I wrote a book about it in 2009 and recently republished it on Kindle.

https://www.amazon.fr/dp/B0CMPMN417

I need to translate the book in French or in fact all other languages of the world.

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@in10RjFox Seem like many people care more about their wedding than their marriage.

in10RjFox · M

@JimboSaturn yeah.. Many couples seem more focused on the superficial aspects of weddings - such as the dress, ceremony, party, and guests - rather than the deeper commitment and partnership that marriage entails. It appears that societal pressures and personal insecurities may drive some individuals to seek validation through these elaborate ceremonies, rather than prioritizing the true meaning and significance of marriage.

Hougal · 31-35, M

@JimboSaturn So right!!! They are caring for the quantity than the quality (if I can say that... It's something like that)

Hougal · 31-35, M

@in10RjFox You're right... I Will check it!!

Spoiledbrat · F

I got married at the courthouse. @in10RjFox

Spoiledbrat · F

I don't know anyone who had an elaborate ceremony. Just a small wedding. @in10RjFox

in10RjFox · M

@Spoiledbrat When things are addressed we always talk about "In General" or majority of cases. So its inappropriate to be specific. The question here is about overall notion of how young generation views marriage.

Also it is not that you got [b]married [/b]at the courthouse, but you got [b]wedded [/b]at the courthouse. In most cases marriage does not happen, even many years after the wedding. There is no divorce for a marriage. Only wedded couples divorce.

So the question to you is "what is marriage?" "why did you marry?" "what have you achieved after the wedding?" "How has your life changed after the wedding?"