I Didn't Wait Until Marriage [Didn't Wait Until Marriage]

Is it important to wait? My parents obviously stress that its a post marriage thing, but is it honestly worth the wait?

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multiversality · 56-60, F

I can't imagine marrying someone without sleeping with them first. How else are you going to find out if you're compatible in bed? Saddling yourself for life (theoretically) with someone whose needs you can't fill or who can't fill yours is a recipe for misery, IMHO.

bhatjc · 46-50, M

Nothing wrong with a test drive

sharqwe · 22-25, F

I never thought about it that way. Scary to think about waiting and then finding out that there's no physical connection after marriage

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@sharqwe: Sounds what happens in a arranged marriage

GlitzandGlamber · 26-30, F

[c=#BF0080] Yes and there is this to consider too! As multiversality says, You also could have zero physical connection and just no chemistry. It does seem kinda hard to know without trying. But I guess if you only ever do it with one person, you wouldn't really know the difference anyway. Haha. Hard to say![/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@GlitzandGlamber: So true