pretty sure my marriage is over

I told him i was miserable and he told me he was miserable. i tried harder on this relationship than any other. he is just not human. his spit test came back inconclusive twice. they couldn't do it.

He has forced me to basically not do anything since we got married. We don't have friends, family or children. and this is all him. i was stupid for staying. but i have had the worst life imaginable and i just couldn't stand being a loser anymore. Well, i guess i am gonna lose anyway.

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Isthisit · F

How long were you guys together for?

DIABLISS

@Isthisit 26 years

Isthisit · F

@DIABLISS wow long time to become miserable

DIABLISS

@Isthisit right off the bat

Isthisit · F

@DIABLISS sorry:( why did you guys marry in the first place?

DIABLISS

@Isthisit i thought we had alot in common. we had nothing in common. i thought he was brilliant. not so much. i thought he was so considerate...nope....he played me for a fool.

i don't think you know anyone in life. everything is a big mystery. i was engaged to a guy for 3 and a half years and when we moved in together...it turned out we didn't know each other at all. The other major players in my life were childish and inconsiderate and self serving and phoney and lazy and violent and all momma's boys. this one seemed different. yikes! different but the same.

Isthisit · F

@DIABLISS peoples true colors always come out after not too long. I guess its up to you to decide if you love them enough to stay or cut your losses and leave. Did you ever want to leave?

DIABLISS

@Isthisit every day

Isthisit · F

@Isthisit @DIABLISS why didnt you?