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Lion1776 · 51-55, M
If you're between 18-21 it is understandable not to be ready to have kids, there will be a time you will be ready
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@Lion1776 I don't believe I ever want kids.

Kodel · 26-30, M
Definitely not. Kids take up a lot of time, money, energy, everything.
For me personally, I dreamt of having several years with a partner before even talking about having kids. Now, sadly I'm at the stage of planning my life without either, however, nonetheless, I'd definitely still want time with just her before either of us worried about trying to raise a kid.
It's a bit selfish, but I'd want time with just me and her. Once there's a kid, the kid comes first. It's kinda a sad reality but I've never really been anyone's first or most important, except to perhaps my mother until she had a daughter. I wouldn't want to give that up soon after acquiring it.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@Kodel That's my thing too, except I wouldn't want the time with just us to end. Not until one of us or both has passed away anyway.
Kodel · 26-30, M
@JimFarris16 I definitely like the idea of like a small group that you keep pretty close over the years and you stay pretty tight knit until the time comes. In my mind, my partner would be the core of that group for me, but there are others that I enjoy spending time with comparably so. Even though I'm quite an antisocial person, it's definitely good to have others to talk to and enjoy time with.
Not at all.
It's natural to want intimate connection with another.
But with climate change likely to accelerate (because not enough is being done to slow it down) this is not a good world to bring kids into.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Live life a bit
You are too young to think about marrying
Some people don’t want children
Check before you marry that she doesn’t want children either
That’s the first step
Mountainlady16 · 22-25, F
In my culture to be married is to be expected to have kids so yes
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@Mountainlady16 I just don't want the responsibility of being a father.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
One step at a time
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@Strictmichael75 What if I never wanna be a father?
Morrowind · 26-30, M
No I’m 26 and don’t want kids

 
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