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Would you marry a girl for money or intelligence or love/ kindness

Poll - Total Votes: 14
If she's affluent that's good
If she's intelligent and studied from an IVY league or Top business school that's a plus
If she's kind and loving, passionate. Her education/intelligence and wealth i dnt give a Fck
If she's kind, loving, passionate, intelligent, educated and wealthy
None of the above
I don't know what i want
If she's only kind, loving and passionate, intelligent that's fine. I dnt give a fck about wealth
If she's kind, loving, passionate but it's important to have intelligence. Wealth can be a plus
All i want is kindness, love, passion and some intelligence. Nothing else matters
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Please note the tonality of the sentences.
"Dnt give a fck is not = it doesn't matter"
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ABCDEF7 · M
I was also expecting below option.

"If she's kind, loving, intelligent and educated. Her wealth doesn't matter."
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User What is the difference between last two?
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User I think saying, "Wealth does not matter" in second last also means it doesn't matter if she is wealthy, or not.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Now it may sound to have the expected meaning. But shows an ego/attitude in the man. Maybe I perceived it differently due to the cultural & language upbringing. If she is wealthy and the guy say I don't give a f*ck about your wealth, doesn't it sounds derogatory.

Saying "Doesn't matter" just tells about the preferences.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Yes, that makes a huge difference.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Wealth is a plus means, that the wealth matters but it has low priority that can be compromised. It just doesn't communicate that wealth is zero priority(not even low).

For example, a man has two proposals. One is kind, loving passionate and intelligent but doesn't have any wealth. Other one is kind, loving, passionate, intelligent and has lot of wealth. If we go by your last option the should go with second option. But I mean he should have equal importance for both. Then he can consider some sixth characteristic.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Lol.. Thanks :)
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User I have voted now. To the last option. Lol..

Lol.. I was just thinking, if we got to get the leader of our choice to vote in the elections. There would be 100% voting.
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ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User That's why we have to choose better out of the available ones.
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