How much is enough!!

I know people who are in shitty marriages and relationships, I feel bad for them but when is it time to say it’s enough? I don’t understand why someone would continually put up with abuse or mistreatment. My heart breaks for my friend but there is nothing I can do other than be supportive and caring. Sorry just had to rant and get it out !!!

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SW-User

It’s hard, especially when kids are involved, where to live etc. plus you have to be ready. Took me years to get the courage to say enough is enough. I would tell myself to stay, it’ll get better, try and fix it.

Ravens80 · 46-50, F

@SW-User I can’t imagine, and it must suck! It hardly ever seems like staying for the kids or anything else is ever a good reason in the long run!

SW-User

@Ravens80 yeah I know that now, my kids have said I should have just left, it is what it is, it’s sad, I’m sorry your friend is going through it. Hopefully she’s leave.

Ravens80 · 46-50, F

@SW-User I pray she will. She’s a beautiful lady and has such a wonderful soul. He’s a fucking piece of shit and doesn’t deserve her nor does she deserve the shit he puts her through.

SW-User

@Ravens80 it’s awful 😢 does she talk about leaving? Obviously he’s abusing her, verbal or physical, both?

Ravens80 · 46-50, F

@SW-User yes and yes