I Am Unhappy In My Marriage

I’ve been married for 4 years and hate my husband. He works hard, don’t get me wrong and can seldom be sweet but I can’t stand him. I want him out of my life.

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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

So why do you hate him?
What are you doing about getting him out of your life?
Are you able to support yourself?

Waitforme · 26-30, F

He’s had two broken feet for years now and is being too lazy to get himself insurance to see a doctor and expects me to pick up his slack in the meantime.

I’d be able to support myself if I were to run away. @GJOFJ3

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@Waitforme you should definitely leave him, you don't have the loving heart needed to be a wife.

Waitforme · 26-30, F

You’re right. I can’t seem to love him the way I used to and it isn’t fair for him. He does deserve much better that I cannot ever give him again. @GJOFJ3

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@Waitforme

He’s had two broken feet for years now

It's not that you don't love him, it's that you don't have love inside you.

Waitforme · 26-30, F

Yes that hit me. We have a long history of abuse in our marriage, both physical and mental. We’ve torn each other down to our lowest levels. With both of us combined I don’t think we have enough love to sustain anymore. @SW-User

SW-User

@Waitforme Have you talked with him about divorce?