I Am Unhappy In My Marriage

How is it that my husband always takes things personally. He has said the worst of the worst to be and I have never did the same. I can never avoid an argument and feel like the person in the wrong no matter what. Today I was getting frustrated so I told him to go inside because I was getting frustrated. He made it out like I personally attacked him. I told him I'm just frustrated. And he kept making it about him. Three different occasions he came up to me acting like it was about him and each time I told him I'm just trying to do this... third time he came up acusing me of saying all these things I didnt say while holding our child. Which I never said and just pisses me off cause hes doing it in front of our child.

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racersteven · 46-50, M

Sorry I know how it feels. Maybe he is getting frustrated at work and taking out on you ?

Lyinginwait · 31-35, F

@racersteven this might be tmi but he hits on me constantly when it's the time of the month but hes not one of those guys who will go there. But that's the only time he initiates, then he says I always turn him down. It's like i dont decide that stuff man. Also, to me that's the best time to go at it.

racersteven · 46-50, M

Well after almost 15 years of marriage we never go at it lol.

Lyinginwait · 31-35, F

After 15 years or the whole 15?

racersteven · 46-50, M

About 5 years . First 5 years lots of passion then ok and the last 5 years not so much .After 2 years of marriage still should have lots of passion but having kids can change that.

Lyinginwait · 31-35, F

True.