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I Am In An Arranged Marriage

Still not. This is crazy, I am crazy, probably.
So, I'll make it short. They proposed to me an arranged marriage. Damn hell.

I'm against marriage, I mean I don't support it, so, mine it seems an easy answer.
But the person is not a random stranger, she's a friend who wants to become citizen of my country, she spent a lot of time here lives a poor life in her country (I mean, poor like real poverty) but she has the opportunity to live a decent western life here in the West even without economical problems.

But there’s only this step missing, they won’t accept her working visa for a long period etc.
So this is crazy, even the embassy told her she might find a person to marry.
And it seems I could be the person. I’m going to refuse, but I don’t know how to do it without ruing our friendship…
Daaamn.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
She is asking a lot of you there, and if you refusing ruins the friendship it isn’t on you. It’s on her; she is the one who crossed boundaries and is letting it affect the friendship. A good friendship would not be ruined by this.
Intissima · F
Don’t feel guilty.
It’s a massive ask.
I feel for her.
Just tell her the truth
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
@Intissima Yeah, sometimes I think "why not?" I can marry her, but c'mon it will affect my life not in a positive way, I want to go abroad and do things, if I marry her I'd stay here for a long time to prove that we're a couple etc.
Ugh. I'm sorry for her but I don't think I can do it.
Congratulation in advance 😀😀😀
Sharky86 · 36-40, M
@YukikoAmagi Daaaaamn you 🦈
coary987 · M
Just do it and go your own way after it.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M

 
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