I Am In Sexless Marriage

Is there anybody in here?
I miss the EP group support :(

It is miserable being in a relationship with somebody you love and want to be with, but the sex part is just missing.

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looking4thesun · M

And here I thought that was just my problem

PoetryNEmotion · F

@looking4thesun It was the largest forum on EP. Isn't that tragic? So many people all unhappy, alone in sexless relationships. People have choices.

looking4thesun · M

@PoetryNEmotion the thing is most are happily married and in love but the sexual side has disappeared. I couldn't go on like that. I tried but eventually it wore on me so much I just had to leave

PoetryNEmotion · F

@looking4thesun People are mostly saying that everything is wonderful BUT....I wonder if they know that the real truth is what comes after the BUT. It negates everything before. It is true in grammar and in life. And the majority say everything is good and they will stay and if they had a choice to do it over again, they would choose sex and being single. I couldn't go on either. It does take its toll even on those who claim to be happy. How could it not? I am glad that you are free.

looking4thesun · M

@PoetryNEmotion in reality my ex called me about a yr later and thanked me for making that decision for the two of us.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@looking4thesun I have nothing to do with the ex. I hope to never see him again. He would have been happy living without sex with me for the rest of his life (he did love my money and the idea of a wife and family), but I knew I deserved much more. So I divorced him. Never regretted it. I hope you are happy and even loved now.

looking4thesun · M

@PoetryNEmotion happy yes. The other is debatable

PoetryNEmotion · F

@looking4thesun Happy matters first. The rest comes later. Take care.

looking4thesun · M

You to. Thanks for the chat