I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Sometimes I think I’m an ILIASM failure. I left my SM 2 years ago. However, I’m not one of the lucky ones who has already found a new relationship. Nor am I one of the blissed-out serenity junkies who’s just thrilled to be single. I’ve done some dating that didn’t work out, and that’s all I’ve gotten after leaving. I wanted something *better* than the SM.....not something equally as painful in a different way.

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anoderod55 · 61-69, M

good luck to you . i don't want to start over . own my home , care giver for my dad , family near by and trying to work keeps me busy . satisfy myself . hope you find a good person soon ! :-)

SmartKat · 56-60, F

@anoderod55 Starting over is awful. If I’m ever in a relationship again, I will not end it unless he’s physically hurting me or stealing my money.

anoderod55 · 61-69, M

@SmartKat i understand . hope you can find a really good guy ! had a chance at an affair . didn't do it because of being afraid of hurting her and my marriage . don't settle for just anybody . i know you won't . good luck to you . prayers for you ! :-)

Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F

@anoderod55 ur dad still alive and your 69? What does he eat?

anoderod55 · 61-69, M

@Collegegirl23 hi ! i'm 62 . :-) just the age group i'm in goes up to 69 . dad is 97 going on 4 . lol . my dad was well taken care of by one of the best . Mom . she passed away 6 yrs ago . now i take care of him . organic and natural foods . still lives at home , mostly alone . he does have a son that is 69 . one 65 . then me and a daughter that just turned 51 . his mother lived to be almost 99 . :-) take care . thanks for asking .

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