I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Sometimes I think I’m an ILIASM failure. I left my SM 2 years ago. However, I’m not one of the lucky ones who has already found a new relationship. Nor am I one of the blissed-out serenity junkies who’s just thrilled to be single. I’ve done some dating that didn’t work out, and that’s all I’ve gotten after leaving. I wanted something *better* than the SM.....not something equally as painful in a different way.

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ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F

I'm sorry, Kat. I want you to live the life you want. I'm so proud of you for leaving an unfulfilling situation. Not everyone has the courage to do that. But like others here have said, I think the love you desire will find you when you aren't looking for it. It takes time. I think you would be well served by pursuing your interests and desires separate from a relationship - your writing and other things you enjoy. Become the best you you can be - the person you want to be, and I believe you'll attract what you desire when you let go of wanting it so badly. I'm sending you good vibes, and I hope you find your way. <3