I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Sometimes I think I’m an ILIASM failure. I left my SM 2 years ago. However, I’m not one of the lucky ones who has already found a new relationship. Nor am I one of the blissed-out serenity junkies who’s just thrilled to be single. I’ve done some dating that didn’t work out, and that’s all I’ve gotten after leaving. I wanted something *better* than the SM.....not something equally as painful in a different way.

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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M

I'm sorry it's been rough for you and though it may feel painful right now, things always change. I've found in the past, that when I stopped looking for it, it seemed to just happen. But again, that's what's happened in my life. I don't have any pearls of wisdom, all I can say is hang in there and maybe, when you least expect it, it will present itself, till then, just find things you like that keep your attention and interest.

I hope things work out the way you want them too. I know it's not a huge comfort or even helpful, but I do hope the best for you.