I Am Unhappy In My Marriage

Feeling so weighed down with the baby. Love her but feel i have to plan for divorce. I just didnt get married to do this alone. Im paying all the bills, when does he stop making excuses about not having a job? Then when he does he works 24/7 and makes excuses about helping me with the baby but i never get to be mom or worker. I have to be both and breadwinner. And im so alone. Hes mad because im not wearing a ring, im mad hes not working. Im mad im paying his car note. When does he do a self evaluation and want to be more. When does he want to be a real man to his children? To be happy and self reliant?