What are your thoughts on monogamy...

Thundergirl- Lol, I can relate to this though. I just wonder though when people decide one way then it changes later on. Suppose I meet my guy and we decided we're both monogamous, which is where my preference lies currently. But then later he changes his mind and I wouldn't be ok with that or if I'd change my mind... I just wonder then about the longevity of the relationship. Then again you can't always change directions ahead of time or predict these things. It's a matter of trial and error. Although I'd like to rephrase that and say trial and redirection... Joys of life, lol:)