Isn't that the dream?
If I'm real I don't really know how to do relationships with someone without being there for them when they're upset like a friend would. all of my relationships have been like that.
It's true, its what I want. To meet my Best friend and then fall in love with her. I used to say I wanted a Girlfriend but I'm now concerned that A lot of people use that term and what the relationship entails differently so I feel saying I want a lover who is also my best friend spells it out FAR better.
I mean I blame myself historically that Cara only wanted to be friends I WAS always her shoulder to cry on but I forgot to tell her I wanted to be there for her because I was into her. it must have come as a surprise. ah well she's dead BTW.
I just think about her a lot because she's why I got noisy about my own feminism.
It's true, its what I want. To meet my Best friend and then fall in love with her. I used to say I wanted a Girlfriend but I'm now concerned that A lot of people use that term and what the relationship entails differently so I feel saying I want a lover who is also my best friend spells it out FAR better.
I mean I blame myself historically that Cara only wanted to be friends I WAS always her shoulder to cry on but I forgot to tell her I wanted to be there for her because I was into her. it must have come as a surprise. ah well she's dead BTW.
I just think about her a lot because she's why I got noisy about my own feminism.
