My Avatar is of a favourite photo of Bogart and Bacall..

Its of two people Humphrey Bogart and his Wife Lauren Bacall

He like I am is a sailor..
He like me he is much in love with his Wife and adores her...

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Unlike me... he smoked and cancer killed him as a direct result... far too young..

She .. like my Wife was purpose minded strong willed, intelligent and deeply in love with her Husband,,, Like my Wife she was Jewish.. (so am I BTW).. and the Mother of children..

So its a fitting Avatar... and one I have not changed...