I Believe Long Distance Relationship Can Work

So I took all your advice and spoke to him about where we're headed. Also if I start freaking out about anything, I'm to ring him immediately and discuss everything. In the last 3 weeks he's traveled to my place twice.

I'm also enjoying my space so I can train boxing & bjj heaps which I was doing for 14 years & before he came along. He's also pretty secure about me training closely with mostly men who are pretty much my brothers. That's been a huge issue with anyone I've started seeing.

My teenage sons also adore him which is the most important thing to me & he's the first guy in 4 years that I've brought home.

I've got a week off in a few weeks so will head up to his place

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IM5688 · 61-69, M

As long as you continue to have the the 3c's, Communication, Commitment, and Compromise, your relationship should work out fine. My LDR resulted in a wonderful and happy marriage that's still going strong. Good luck and best wishes to you both.

Florence · 46-50, F

How long did you do the LDR thing til you moved in together?

IM5688 · 61-69, M

@Florence: We met on an international dating site, (I'm from USA, she was in China.) We communicated for almost 1 year via online and telephone. then I went to China to meet her and her family. I stayed about 1 month. Before I left China, we were married in China. I then returned alone to the USA where it took me almost 1 year to get thru all the red tape and paperwork to bring her here. Almost 1 year to the date we were married, she arrived here in the USA and we have been happy together ever since.

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@IM5688: Intriguing enough!

kittyrose · 41-45, F

I wish you luck in your relationship.🐈

GoldenWorm · 51-55, M

Sounds like you're going about the LDR the right way. Grats on working towards what you want.

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