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whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
The answer isnt time. You can sit looking out the window watching the seasons come and go and grow old still broken hearted. Or you can get busy doing the things you didnt do because it was not a shared interest with your ex. You will have a list of things he wasnt into. There is your starting point. Once thats rolling, think about those things you always wanted to do, but didnt have the time.. The one I always quote, just as an example is indoor rock climbing. It doesnt have to be that of course. But you get the idea.. Entertaining yourself with interesting things will help paint new memories over those cracks pretty quickly..😷