I have never felt more alone in my life than when I was in a long distance relationship. I would have actually really been alone.

That's why I've rejected ldr, it's not that I didn't want the person, I just knew I couldn't handle it. I'm not the person who texts, calls etc and I want to see and touch my partner otherwise I don't feel well. Maybe it's a phase but ldr is definitely not for everybody.

Yeah..unless you’re dead from the waist down that has to be frustrating

I am fortune that my bf and fly back and forth to see each other. He's in Vancouver, BC, and I'm in Long Beach, CA.

But I get it. I've been in another long distance relationship and eventually, it just hurt. Especially because he wouldn't let me fly out to meet him.

So you only saw her 3 times in a couple of years. Is that cos she couldn't afford to fly you out or cos your wife might find out?

Feeling alone and unwanted right now actually, lol

It’s miserable

I get it.
The Christmas between our first together and when we got married. That was lonely.

Tried one once. It's tough, the spontaneity can't be there.