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I'm officially dumped

So I've given my now ex space for months after getting off to a great start in the relationship. I gave it her because her life was in chaos and she was under immense pressure. But I always had the nagging feeling that it was really all over. This even after she had promised to move in with me and even in our occasional texts she told me she loved me.
But tonight after we'd started talking more often again she said she didn't want to be with me anymore. I feel disappointed and angry. I've kept my life on hold to accommodate her return and yet she won't be. Now I feel lost too and unlovable all over again.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
I understand your feelings and am sorry. After the last betrayal I experienced, I will no longer allow anyone to ever make me feel unlovable again. I have made positive strides toward being at peace with my solitude. I hope you can move forward in a move positive and emotionally open way than I can. Take care.
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@LadyBronte Tbh how you feel going forward is exactly how I am feeling right now too. I feel completely unless unlovable and I feel like having a total blowout. But I can't as I have responsibilities. I don't know if I can be emotionally compromised like that again.
mark this one down to lesson learned hopefully
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@SummerDays I didn't think it would come to this.
@VirginMatchmaker sorry to hear that, but hopefully you learn from it :)
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@SummerDays yeah stay single
It happens man, I'm really sorry. All you can do is forgive yourself and move on.
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
@GohantheThird thanks but don't need to forgive myself, however somehow I've got rebuild what little confidence I have.

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