I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

I don't think I can keep doing this. I want to see him all the time & feels unnatural that we live such seperate lives. I've been hinting at ending it yesterday as it might be for the best before it gets any deeper. I haven't heard from him today as we normally message or text constantly every day.

To make things more complicated someone I'd been briefly seeing before the long distance one has been trying to see me again. I ended that cause he was going through a divorce and moving out of his family home. His divorce is finalized & he's got a clean slate.

Ugh what does a woman do

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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

LDR's are straining. Other r'ships creep in.. Just be open and honest... Typically your other partner - in your LDR - will be compassionate and understanding and trusting in your decisions and NOT threatened by an old beau...
Been-there-Done-that..
If you need an experienced LDR person to lean on... I'm here.

Florence · 46-50, F

Such wise words. Although we've known each other for nearly 30 years he hasn't really discussed the direction in where we're going. It's too uncertain & I'm not sure if I want to invest time in it

polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

@Florence: INVEST TIME???? You'll be investing your HEART....
My experience suggests that you should take the leap, or else you'll always regret not trying....