I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

I don't think I can keep doing this. I want to see him all the time & feels unnatural that we live such seperate lives. I've been hinting at ending it yesterday as it might be for the best before it gets any deeper. I haven't heard from him today as we normally message or text constantly every day.

To make things more complicated someone I'd been briefly seeing before the long distance one has been trying to see me again. I ended that cause he was going through a divorce and moving out of his family home. His divorce is finalized & he's got a clean slate.

Ugh what does a woman do

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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

Personally long distance is tough. Talk with him...you may find the divorced guy is the way to go.

Florence · 46-50, F

I told the divorced guy a while ago that I wanted to stop seeing him until he'd finished cleaning up his mess plus he needed privacy to help his kids deal with their parents becoming seperated. I always wanted to go back to him but now this new one's come into my life

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

Been there Florence...so now you have choices. Which do you want to be with more?

Florence · 46-50, F

Not sure@PTCdresser57:

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

All I can say is give it time and follow your heart Florence.

Florence · 46-50, F

@PTCdresser57: I told him I'm not going to see him til the new year even though it's killing me

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

You will be fine Florence. Your heart may ache but you have the holidays to stay busy with. Do you still think he is THE ONE?

Florence · 46-50, F

@PTCdresser57: He was the very first boy I had a crush on when I was 13 & I've known him since just before I turned 12. I never told him cause I was really shy. He still makes me laugh & I'm still attracted to him. It's really passionate & natural when we're together. I think he might be the one now I'm 40

Florence · 46-50, F

Ps he grew up tall, muscley & handsome