I Am In a Long Distance Relationship

I have very poor management skills

I've been in an open relationship, it's not for everyone, particularly not ppl w fragile egos.

@dystopianAntihero: oh thank you😂

It's true. I speak fr experience

@dystopianAntihero: some people only want just a person in their life. It's not a question of ego. I'm happy with mine. So I don't need another person

@Girlwithsilverheart: I figured that, just speaking in general, didn't mean you, per se. Just saying that's one of the bug draw backs w poly relationships, they're not always all beer and skittles

@dystopianAntihero: some people find monogamy validating like it's them and only them that the person has feelings for which is the fantasy I guess but Speaking as the Polyamor I wanted a Lover than was like my Best friend and my Best friend was somebody I could be entirely open with and didn't have to keep all the feelings I was naturally developing for others underneath. Being able to have open communication is HUGE to me as I'm finding out more and more and if you restrict the topic of other emotions It's hugely detrimental to the quality of relationship for me.

I -NEED- to be able to be open about my feels and if you shut them down because of your interpersonal jealousies I will suffer.

@girlwithsilverheart "some people only want just a person in their life. It's not a question of ego."

It isn't for me either. I'm not necessarily insulted by my Partner having others, If anything I just figure that she's human.

We all have to deal with such things.

I wanted a less conditional relationship.

@eternalpariah: I'm a kind of introvert person. I don't open up that easy. That's why I am okay with monogamy. Luckily my partner has the same view.

@Girlwithsilverheart: I would -love- to be with an introvert.

Don't get me wrong. The depth of perspective. I'm an ENFP but I hate small chat And I don't like it when people talk only about the Concrete reality without seeing the bigger picture and the possibilities.

which is odd for an Autistic but yeah Overly concrete thinkers frustrate me.

One of my best friends is an INFP and I guess SOME Of it just where you put your Efforts especially with introverts but I have a enormous crush.

it only gets worse when she actually opens up.

I LIKE introverts. I think the best Metaphor I could explain it you with though is to say I'm focused on possibilities as an ENFP and tend to watch the external world and abstract out of it future possibilities from what's in my external environment by preference but Again I do introverted things like Read BOOKS even though I'm an Extravert because there's nothing in the Extravert honor code that says that the External environment you find stimulating isn't necessarily literature and this means that I would naturally be attracted to the thought processes of Introverts because it's something in my external environment I can nom nom nom on if you get my drift. Thought food!