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PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
Not at all, having examined the reason my exes ultimatum towards an open relationship bothered me at the time despite wanting the same things as her, I realized it all boiled down to fear that it would destablize the relationship and I'd lose her. Point being after agonizing over why for so long I came to realize I can surrender control and everything just as long as they return to me within a reasonable amount of time. You want to mess with other men and boys be my guest, just don't leave me.