That's my dating style. I have certain preferences. Ever since I came here years ago, it's been wonderful. A never ending supply of dating prospects. I say the more dating sites you use, the better. You want to have an abundance of options. But then you run into the problem of being indecisive and always looking for the next person even if you've already met some you like a lot.
That's how you sometimes, inadvertently become a player. It is so gradual you don't notice. Being a huge flirt works too. Often times I will sit down by someone I think is attractive in hopes that they'll notice me and start talking to me and ask me out. Anyone else try it? I recommend it.