do the sideeefects ever wane?

i am 36, still active, it has probably made it harder for me to connect with others. always been shy and introverted. but mom has always been there as caretaker, friend, and lover, so maybe im just spoiled, but im still happy for her to be the center of my life.

All depends on the situation

i have been with a cousin, neither of us seem to have had any side effects. we both consented, it may be different for you, feel free to dm if you have questions or need to talk

It made me very shy and withdrawn for some years but it finally broke up in my late 20s. It still made me very focused on secrets and shame, though, until I was in my 50s

Nope I think it’s forever traumatizing

Side effects of what?