Being cheated on in the past doesn't make you stronger..😢

I know it's very early days, but someone just came up on people you may know. 1 mutual friend. It's my love interest. I want to click, but it will kill me if he's giving others attention.

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VisionQuest · 51-55, M

No, it doesn't make us stronger. Cheating and abandonment are forever scars.
It is grieving the loss of the living, because the perosn that you loved and trusted is dead.

Philasefer · M

you can't control someone giving attention to others. If this person truly loves you then they will make sure to give 100% of their attention towards you.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@Philasefer i agree. Its scary how many dm sliders are in a relationship.

Philasefer · M

@PaleandPolluted Yeah it's scary but just remember your self worth and remind your love interest that you want someone that will give 100% attention

Notmesam

No one has the capacity to love you as much as you have the capacity to love yourself. If this person isn’t paying you any attention, he’s not interested. Love yourself more.

Captain · 61-69, M

I tend to agree. It can only make you less trusting

userfawkes1105

Without trust it’s just too tiresome to justify it imho

Baremine · 70-79, C

Rebuilding trust takes decades.

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