I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

so two nights ago I got out of the shower and was drying my hair when I noticed a light shining through the open window and seen my ex just looking at me. Was really creepy and now honestly scared that he is just around my house watching me...
I don't know what to do

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persistentone22 · M

You never wrote a longer story explaining the breakup, but something here seems weird. How did you go from perfect relationship to him being a passive/aggressive who alternates between telling you to stay away and peeking in your window?

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

we were engaged but he wanted to get married ASAP when we first agreed we wouldn't rush into it. He also wanted kids right after we get married and I told him I wasn't ready for that.. It led to lots of arguments and eventually him breaking up with me saying that I was leading him on..

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries: Sounds like he is a control freak

persistentone22 · M

@PlumBerries: But even in your description, he sounds like he knows what he wants and he states that clearly. How did he devolve to become this weird stalker dude who hangs outside your window and says nothing? Sounds like he had a psychological meltdown on the way to the breakup.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I never claimed he was stalking me though. I wrote about him sending me lots of texts and that one time he was outside my place looking in window.

persistentone22 · M

@PlumBerries: I don't have the right understanding to feel the situation as you do. But most people would see a person being outside your place and looking into your window without communicating as - at minimum - not normal behavior.