I Hate My Ex Boyfriend

[c=#7700B2]so two nights ago I got out of the shower and was drying my hair when I noticed a light shining through the open window and seen my ex just looking at me. Was really creepy and now honestly scared that he is just around my house watching me...
I don't know what to do [/c]

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bhatjc · 46-50, M

Report it to the police. Maybe get a restraining order.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]already reported it. Police said they can't do much because it's just my word vs his[/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries: Yes that is true. But you have done a report. So if he shows up again. And you call they will have some reason to talk to him more

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]hopefully he doesn't show up again. [/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries: You never know plum. But if you want to fill a restraining over with the cops. That is your choice. Maybe having the cops go by your place when you called. Might have scared him off.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]i still care about him a lot and despite him treating me like crap for no reason lately, I don't want to go and get police on him or anything like that. I just wish he would leave me alone.
He knows one of my biggest fears is people watching me in my house and breaking in and so on, and he seems to be trying to just scare me [/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries: Talk to your neighbors about it. So they know to watch out for him creeping. They might call the cops on him. But still be on the look out if he does.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

[c=#7700B2]my place isn't close to any neighbours where they would see who comes in my place. I like privacy so I tried to get a place where I get plenty of space[/c]

bhatjc · 46-50, M

That is a good point. Nothing wrong with that. I would like that as well. But still get to know your neighbors.