I Hate Cheaters

It's not that easy to unravel. Cheating (with ANYTHING) is a survival skill. The thing(s) the person is surviving isn't something the cheater wants to deal with. That would be too painful. The ego/identity NEVER wants to get caught with it's pants down. If it ever got found out, that would be the end of its agenda. Cheating is running away from something. Since cheating is such a successful survival strategy, which effectively keeps the pain at bay, the ploy will continue as long as he or she can get away with it. Usually (for example, if there's no revenge involved), it's not meant to hurt anyone. There's nothing malicious or sinister about it. Its purpose is to keep the cheater safe from his or her own fear-based feelings. That [b][i]hardly[/i][/b] means it should be tolerated. If the cheater isn't willing to dive deeply into his or her own life with a sincere willingness to make corrections, move on.