I Hate Cheaters

I hate cheaters so incredibly much. I was once the other women and I thought it was all just innocent fun. But then I saw what my actions did to the wife and I made a promise I’d never be that again. Cheating is never okay or justified. If you’re having problems then talk to your partner about it instead of going elsewhere.

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IronHamster · 56-60, M

If the wife had the ability to take care of her man, would he still have gone out with you?

Lana24 · 26-30, F

@IronHamster his behavior and mine was wrong. It’s not her fault.

IronHamster · 56-60, M

@Lana24 There are two kinds of cheaters.

Fidelity has two sides. Marriage vows state that each spouse will be intimate, and that they will be intimate with their spouse only. Intimacy comes first. There is no "forsaking all others" until "to have and to hold" is in place.

A spouse that withholds intimacy is no different morally than a spouse that fucks the mail carrier every day.