I Hate Cheaters

I've been cheated on several times and it hurts. My husband now of almost 20 years suffers for it. It's not something that is easy to get over. When you break someone's trust it's not an easy thing to get back. I don't understand why people want to hurt people this way.

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Ynotisay · M

Well, people do it because they're selfish and driven by ego and insecurity. So I guess it comes down to why you'd want to give people like that your energy. I don't understand that.
And if it wasn't your husband who cheated then I also don't get making him pay for something he had nothing to do with. That's in line with the selfishness of a cheater.
Sorry but I'm just not able to understand living in the past when it hurts the present and future. Different paths up the mountain I guess.