The Myers-Briggs personality test has shed a lot of light on why my Husband and I argue so much. Ya, I know there are skeptics out there.🙄
My Husband's personality type is ISTJ
"ISTJ (Logistician) is a personality type with the Introverted, Observant, Thinking, and Judging traits. These people tend to be reserved yet willful, with a rational outlook on life. They compose their actions carefully and carry them out with methodical purpose."
https://www.16personalities.com/istj-personality
My personality type is INFP
"INFP (Mediator) is a personality type with the Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting traits. These rare personality types tend to be quiet, open-minded, and imaginative, and they apply a caring and creative approach to everything they do."
https://www.16personalities.com/infp-personality
If you delve into this deeper, you will find my Husband is more rigid and likes routine. I am a go with the flow type of person, and I can get really sad with rigid schedules and completely logical approaches to everything. I am a dreamer, and I like to explore all possibilities. Soooo, we fight alot. However, I have always needed my Husband's down-to-earth attitude to ground my dreaming nature a little. Still, when I am controlled too much, I get depressed. I've been depressed a lot, because I love my Husband dearly and I want him to be comfortable in life. Family harmony is a priority for me. 🙂
