Pinkrainbowkisses... I was not trying to gross you out - I only mentioned it because it was pertinent. I am a bit older than you are in my late fifties - and my MIL is in her seventies - no one is meddling it is sort of humorous teasing but no she was not joking she was serious and it was funny and all in good taste. "Then enjoy your Wife" is a cool nice way of saying have a good time and it is not much different than the kids going to Grandma's house for the weekend so the parents can have some adult alone time together - and that sure happens in families very regularly. All she did was say it flat out and she said it to me - the son in law - not her Daughter who might have reacted to this - as you did. It was fine - unusual I grant you but fine....