Something weird happened yesterday.

Last night I found something weird in my husband belongings, a weird sex toy that we never used before, I know he doesn't like toys but he likes to explore and this thing I didn't expect from him, if it's just exploration then why didn't he consult me first? And if it's something else then I might have to leave him, which is very hard cause I love him and our son is very attached to his dad, he even loves him more than me, but I don't know, I took a picture of it sending it to him with an angry message saying wtf??? I was so angry cause he messed up the kitchen before he went to bed and then I found that thing in his belongings, I feel lost don't know who to tell, most of my family and friends will just say leave him, most of my people don't really care.