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AuRevoir · 36-40, M
The main science behind is that the majority of dating and meeting your partner now occurs online. Either through a specific dating app or, in more rare circumstances. You have for example the guy who made the youtube video about living life and coping with being horribly ugly. From where a woman commented on the video and thought he was cute. The two of them got married.
Either way, it's just factual that most partnerships outside of middle school and high school, now are found online.
This leads into a spiral effect mostly due to women's choices. Women for the most part are incredibly similar in what they want. And they proved through the data collected. That the majority of women on dating apps ended up dating the same 3% of men. Leaving 97% of the males on dating apps with dramatically lower date percentages.
Essentially the numbers are like this. 97% of women on dating apps, only ended up dating the top 3% of men on the dating apps. Those 3% of men feel they have a endless supply of women to be with. That helps to feed their ego. So they never settle down, get married, or delete the app, to leave room for other men. Instead they take the women out on dates, possibly hook up in the bedroom. For some undiscerned short amount of time. Say on average between 2 weeks to maybe 6 weeks. With also lots of one night stands that maybe only last a weekend. Then start all over again. Since these men are tall, wealthy, in good shape, and good looking. They check all the boxes that are the main criteria concerns for women who use dating apps. As personality beforehand matters very little and is something they're willing to explore along the way.
Since the remaining 97% of men are left with only occasionally getting message based conversations started, let alone, any actual dates with women. It slowly has created an influx over time of an incel population that will continue to rise as these social behaviors are continued to be produced by the world. Some of the incels have given up on being incels entirely and instead engage with prostitutes. While others, find their community and engage in a mostly negative echoe chamber where they complain about the unrealistic standards in comparison of what women need to offer in order to be considered a valid partner in the dating scene, compared to what men need to have.
This stems over into other countries as well, such as China. Where many people are now single. And the people are concerned with just how many people aren't married.
The more common phrases being talked about instead of just incel or femcel. Which are more purposefully derogatory. Are the male loneliness epidemic and the female loneliness epidemic. In the past people were better at connecting, but mostly in part due to technology and its influences. People are never satisfied in relationships, and more breakups happen with less longstanding or permanent relationships, as features such as social media, continue to take precedence in peoples lives.
Either way, it's just factual that most partnerships outside of middle school and high school, now are found online.
This leads into a spiral effect mostly due to women's choices. Women for the most part are incredibly similar in what they want. And they proved through the data collected. That the majority of women on dating apps ended up dating the same 3% of men. Leaving 97% of the males on dating apps with dramatically lower date percentages.
Essentially the numbers are like this. 97% of women on dating apps, only ended up dating the top 3% of men on the dating apps. Those 3% of men feel they have a endless supply of women to be with. That helps to feed their ego. So they never settle down, get married, or delete the app, to leave room for other men. Instead they take the women out on dates, possibly hook up in the bedroom. For some undiscerned short amount of time. Say on average between 2 weeks to maybe 6 weeks. With also lots of one night stands that maybe only last a weekend. Then start all over again. Since these men are tall, wealthy, in good shape, and good looking. They check all the boxes that are the main criteria concerns for women who use dating apps. As personality beforehand matters very little and is something they're willing to explore along the way.
Since the remaining 97% of men are left with only occasionally getting message based conversations started, let alone, any actual dates with women. It slowly has created an influx over time of an incel population that will continue to rise as these social behaviors are continued to be produced by the world. Some of the incels have given up on being incels entirely and instead engage with prostitutes. While others, find their community and engage in a mostly negative echoe chamber where they complain about the unrealistic standards in comparison of what women need to offer in order to be considered a valid partner in the dating scene, compared to what men need to have.
This stems over into other countries as well, such as China. Where many people are now single. And the people are concerned with just how many people aren't married.
The more common phrases being talked about instead of just incel or femcel. Which are more purposefully derogatory. Are the male loneliness epidemic and the female loneliness epidemic. In the past people were better at connecting, but mostly in part due to technology and its influences. People are never satisfied in relationships, and more breakups happen with less longstanding or permanent relationships, as features such as social media, continue to take precedence in peoples lives.