i got a belt whipping from my husband

@LeopoldBloom wow

@LeopoldBloom I think this is a reasonable question. There's a pre agreed and consensual power exchange that brings each partner fulfilment. We see submission as a gift and only give that gift to a dominant who is honourable and worthy of it. There's massive trust in this kind of relationship. If he did embarrass her, or act dishonorably in some other way, the trust would be broken and as the submissive partner, she could refuse to give him her submission. Bare in mind this is consensual and she chooses to give her submission. You could say, the submissive actually holds the ultimate power. 🙂

@SW-User you hit it right on the nail

@SW-User As long as it's between consenting adults, that's fine. But on here, you never know as there are a few degenerates who talk about how they get off on beating kids.

@LeopoldBloom yeah I hate that too. 😏