Married men can you answer this question?

If you are thinking about a woman, thinking about what she is up to and looking at photos and videos of her and admitted missing her. Do you just see her as a friend or would you care about her more deeply?

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Herpet

Sort of both. Hard lesson learned, you will rarely have a more deeply relationship with someone if you both do not work at and become friends first. At least something real and lasting.
I genuinely love my female friends and yes, at a time or so there may be the almost inevitable flirt or lustful thoughts towards something neither would follow through on. Often times not out of respect for each others partner. Will admit, I loved that sexual tension if I were to be honest, but I am fortunate to have developed a trust with my wife now that it would never lead to anything really happening physical with anyone else. Does the fact non-sexual is not an option make the feeling for her less deep or important?