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I Am Happily Married to the Love of My Life

I am but it’s not always wine and roses. There’s lots of ups and down but I’ll never give up. Though it does get exhausting with work, school, chores, bills, sports...it would be nice just for the relationship to be better. Things get in the way, harsh words spoke, the silence battles, feeling like you’re failing him. I never seem to do enough. There always something bothering him. I’m not the young girl he first met that was broken. He’s a fixer, drawn to damaged goods. Now that I’m stronger maybe he feels that I don’t need him yet he knows we wouldn’t survive without him. ....the battle rages on.
Reflection2 · 36-40, M
Amazing how you are still able to feel his inside and still there is a gap between you two.

He sounds like some who always need a purpose to thrive. Talk to him and tell him, you still need him despite the fact that you are a Stronger women.
CareBear420 · 36-40, F
@Reflection2 stronger then broken then stronger then broken. I don’t think I’ll ever be fixed.
Reflection2 · 36-40, M
@CareBear420 is it necessary to b fixed. I have seen beautiful and perfect broken things. I have seen and infact, have met beautiful people with broken souls. Selfless people. Find a purpose, a bigger one for your self ☺️
Bleak · 36-40, F
That’s beautiful

Marriage is like bringing each other’s imperfections in a perfect nutshell. 🙂
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
Sounds like many relationships, they are hard. Maybe try to set a night aside for the two of you
CareBear420 · 36-40, F
Yes I’ve done that and am always the one to suggest it. I would like the same in return I suppose so I’ve sort of given up on that aspect.@Lackwittyname
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@CareBear420 Ah got it, that sucks, sorry you are the one having to always do that. Other than telling him not sure what can be done.
CareBear420 · 36-40, F
We love each other, no doubt so all is not lost, just complicated right now. I miss when things were free and easygoing but nothing stays Golden I suppose.@Lackwittyname

 
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