I Hate How Good Guys Complain About Being Friendzoned

Good "nice" guys always complain about how they end up being friendzoned and how women always fall for the bad boy but here's the thing.... I don't feel bad for them! Dating the stereotypical "bad boy" is like playing with fire. We all know that there's a good chance that we could get burnt but hope that we will be the exception. So getting our hearts broken doesn't come as a surprise. Dating a good guy however is an amazing experience he will treat you like a queen and make you feel loved and secure but when he breaks your heart the carpet gets pulled from right under your feet, the betrayal is worse because they make you feel so secure. The pain is worse, you feel blindsided and end up wondering how something so good could turn so bad so quickly.

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nic82

i don't believe in this i consider myself a nice guy but every time i felt like i was "friend zoned" it was due to me not trying to take a hold of the situation but on the other hand girls do seem to like the bad boy persona i always assumed because they felt like they could turn something bad into something good with that being said good guys only pull the rug so to speak when they feel like things arnt going in the direction they hoped it would after some time when you can really take a step back and look at things from a objective point of view you'll see that too

luxdentata

"Friend zone" is a shitty term that men made up to justify hatred towards women who aren't interested in them. Be careful using it, it has a lot if associations with misogynistic attitudes. X

awsome2

How would you know if your not a man? And we don't hate the women that friendzoned us, we just wish they wouldn't be so stupid when it comes to choosing guys because if it wasn't for that we would have women we deserve and the asswholes wouldn't have anyone. Except for another girl who they know is a loser then They might change their ways.

SiriusJT

I'm quite confused about all this good guy/bad guy talk. So a good guy is someone who is nice, and a bad guy is someone who is a jerk?

awsome2

Well yeah it's some who acts l Iike a jerk, to turn the girls on. They do things or say They do things that others think are badass which means they do really amazing things that they would never have the courage to do. Like they could say that they got some scare on there head from a knife fight when really they got that from hitting their head on the pavement. It wasn't prove that they had been in that situation but it looked like it was. Kids are really stupid so they'll believe this shit without thinking hey maybe They got it some where else they don't want me to know where they really got it.
I have heard that a lot of this guys only act like they are badass at school but in reality they are complete wimps. I know that because they're was one guy that thought I was one of them so that's why he told me that he didn't know for sure if I was I just sounded like I was to him. He really cared about saving his cool reputation that much. He didn't want to think oh this guy is so much more cooler then I am and had actually been through something. I said things that didn't make me look good to him, he was really ignorant so of course I would look like I wasn't as hardcore as he thought, but whatever he wasn't really as cool as he thought he was anyway, so what he thinks doesn't matter.

They truly nice guys or they are the men that really suck at getting women because nothing they do is cool. They are big nerds and aren't really nice they just think well I'm not as bad as these people so I must be nice when they do this they don't think of the bad things that they did really that bad or They don't even acknowledge them because doing that won't do his nice guy reputation really good.

oldgentleman59

nobody is bad ugy or good guy...just normal guys

Devil08

So where do you fit in among two?

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