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I Recently Got Friend Zoned

Getting mixed feelings from my crush. A while ago I told my crush how I felt in a letter, her response is in one of my old posts, the letter starts "Hey there." But any way, it has been a little while since that happened, but now things seem to have changed. Last week she finally reached out and responded to one of my emails, she gave me her new email address so we could talk more, then I emailed the new email and I got her number from her. We have been texting almost everyday since then. She is as nice as always, but there just seems to be something there, it's hard to explain, but there is something. She is and has always been one of my closest friends, I was her first friend in high school and we are in band together. If you want any more background than read back into my experiences: she is the clarinet pla<x>yer who I had eaten lunch with and was really nervous to tell how I feel). Please help, sorry for such a long experience, but I really need some help with this.
Garraway
You were never not in the friend zone. Girls are heart crushing like that. Just move on, be a friend but give yourself space to be man and find a girl who will do what you desire and expect
marchdan · 22-25, M
That's the thing though, I am the first person to ever admit my feelings to her and her first friend in high school. We had a close bond, but there is something more.
Garraway
That is how you feel, her feelings could be quite different or separate. Her life and how she was raised might have very different expectations and goals than yours...back off from her. If she comes around for attention, let her know in a slightly mean way what you expect...that is the only way out of the friend zone and it only works a small percentage of the time...sorry, been in your shoes
marchdan · 22-25, M
I'll say it this way. I know her well enough to know what back ground she comes from, and I know how sh feels about me as a friend. The biggest question is, how does she feel about me as more, even if she doesn't realize it, she could still like me an that could be the connection I feel. In thy case she may not realize it yet, but I have to figure out how to make her realize it while still ring a good friend in case I am wrong.

 
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