Anyone got a 'friend with benefits' and how did you (a) find the person and (b) become fwb's ?

I’ve tried, can’t do it, those pesky feelings and honestly don’t want to. I’d rather have the feelings.

Had one back in the day. I was living with a friend who happened to be a stripper. So we would sleep with each other's friends. One girl who was engaged and in an open relationship kept coming over to see me. It actually turned out to be mostly benefits. She didn't like to hang out with anyone but her fiance.

Sometimes the benefits happen first......then we become good friends for the long term. Sometimes the opposite is true. I don't think there is a set recipe for "how to".

i was friends with the benedicts once or twice.