I Share My Best Friend's Wife

We've been friends for just over 40 years now. We started sharing wives about 30 years ago when we were all in our early 40's and enjoyed many great times together. Sadly, I lost my wife 11 years ago and can't say how thrilled I was when my friend and his wife pulled me out of my depression and said they still wanted to carry on.
Mostly all three of us got together, but every so often he allowed his wife and I to meet on our own. That's sincere friendship for you. I love you both! Thank you!

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Ben052003 · 18-21, M

O. M. G. !! Should I be reading this?

DavidW · 70-79, M

@Ben052003 Sorry. I didn't think when I recommended this site to you.

JollyRoger · 70-79, M

@Ben052003 Yes, Ben. Polyamory may not be 'normal' but it exists.
For a young person like you, it may pose a moral dilemma because of your up-bringing (which is not wrong). Sharing partners in a loving relationship is only wrong when a jealousy sets in and can't be righted - it then should be stopped voluntarily. It's also wrong to expose young children to it(you are not young) as they may question it outside of the home and such a revelation may cause them to suffer torment by less open-minded people - I should say, 'the children of less open-minded people.' Do remember that when the "Ten Commandments" were created by God and given, the purpose was to prevent discord in the community of men and women...jealousy is that discord. When Gomorrah was destroyed it was because the people were not 'loving' they were just 'fucking'. A modern 'hotwife' situation is immoral... it is not polyamory.

DavidW · 70-79, M