I Need Emotional Intimacy

Why are so many guys just into looks? I mean I know it's been talked about ad nauseum but I just don't get it. When I was still married I went out with my girlfriends and guys used to pay more attention to me. It was nice, but I felt really bad for the other girls, and besides I was married. Any sincere comments would be appreciated.

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Docdon23 · M

I honestly believe it is our instinct our inborn nature, our natural need to reproduce the species. Of course now, with so many people, that need is pretty much gone--we will survive without me or you producing lots of offspring. I have found that after the initial appearance attraction, personality and interests trump (sorry) outer beauty...inner beauty is more enduring.